Batteries-Free Orgasm for Women

Is Vibrator Use Addictive? Margaret was a single woman in her late forties who came to me for sex coaching. She had been without a partner for several years, and she wanted to meet someone, but she was afraid of what she was bringing into the bedroom, an inability to...

To the Edge and Back

Spoiler alert: this post contains graphic language and a description of male masturbation technique What is Edging? Edging is the process of approaching the point of orgasm or ejaculation and then intentionally stopping sexual stimulation in order to delay the moment...

Sex in Poly Relationships

Polyamory Conversations During our recent trip to Frolicon 2015 in Atlanta, Trevor and I attended a panel called Polyamory 202, in which the presenter outlined some of the issues that crop in “long-term” poly relationships. Although she had good things to...

The Benefits of BDSM: Part II

In my last posting I described some of the benefits of BDSM as a part of your sexual bag of tricks. In this article, I’d like to specifically address the advantages of seeking a professional, experienced coach in your journey to sexual awakening. Primarily, the...

Benefits of BDSM: Part I

BDSM (Bondage/Dominance/Sadism/Masochism) isn’t for everyone, but if you’re reading this article, odds are you’re curious or have already dabbled in it.  Most people have a tendency towards either dominant or submissive appetites. Rather than spend half the article on...