Can this Marriage be Saved?

Yesterday, I had really fun lunch with my friends, psychologists Ted Riskin, and Marcia Gleason. I had never met Marcia, who is the founder of The Exceptional Marriage, however she and her husband were on my radio show last year. We were talking about the importance...

In praise of women over forty

This lovely tribute to women over forty has been circulating the internet for years, incorrectly attributed to Andy Rooney.  It was actually written by Frank Kaiser, the founder of a humor and blog website called Suddenly Senior. You have to love a website that allows...

50 Shades and the Rest of Us

 One night at a party, someone I had just met made a comment I hear a lot.  Inevitably, when people hear I am a sex and pleasure coach, they say something like “Oh, you must love Fifty Shades of Grey.” Well, no actually, I think it’s poorly written and a gross...

Dancing in the Flow of Eros Playshop

Imagine a Full Body Orgasm I didn’t start out a fan of tantra. It seemed murky, this energy sex thing. Give me good old hands on genitals, mouth on erogenous zones, your hardness inside my warmth. And then I learned the masculine-feminine breath. It would be too...

What Relationships Mean to Women

What Women Really Want I was thinking the other day that it may be God’s cosmic joke to make men and women relate to one another, and then put within us such a different set of longings. Women yearn for connection. Men long for freedom. How Men and Women Are...