Head, Heart and Hard-on

Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along  and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...

Three Simple Steps to Getting What You Want

What do we want? One of the most common goals that our clients have is “to be able to communicate my desires to my partner.” Helping people find their voice is something we are passionate about. Why? Because we’ve been there. We both were in...

The Elusive Vaginal Orgasm

My girlfriend doesn’t experience vaginal orgasm! This is a very common complaint from clients. The men want to “make” their woman cum from f#*king. The women think they should be  able to orgasm from penetration. (All those movies can’t be...

What I Get out of Being Socials

The Most Recent Being Social Last Friday, we had lovely Being Social. I am always so touched to witness how a group of strangers walk in nervous and unsure, and by the end of the evening they are sharing things that not even their oldest friends know.  It’s...