Permission to Be Naked

I spent this weekend celebrating the summer Solstice on a beautiful property outside Asheville. To those that find their spirituality in connection to nature, the equinoxes and solstices have special significance. We gathered around a fire On Saturday night and...

How I Discovered My Calling

How Did I Get Started as a Sex Coach? T’is the season of gratitude, so I thought I would add an acknowledgment that also answers the question, how did you get started as a sex and intimacy coach? I’m grateful today to Andes Bell, who was the Dean of the...

Fall Energy Running Rampant

Why the High Levels of Energy? All I can say is WOW! The energy this fall is intense. If you tune in you can feel it. Surely you have noticed it’s effects. Are you feeling extra turned on, or extra irritable? Are the people around you blowing up and blowing out?...

Dare to be Bare

Last week, I was giving the dogs their final evening walk. It was hot, and I was wearing nothing but a sarong, knotted across my chest. The sky was indigo and the air was warm, and there was not a soul to be seen. It’s a small apartment complex that is backed by...

The Body Never Lies

Are you a natural-born people pleaser?  I am. I just realized that I was traumatized by the birth of my sister when I was three years old.  suddenly, I was no longer the center of attention. Not only did this usurper come along, but we moved to a new apartment which...

In praise of women over forty

This lovely tribute to women over forty has been circulating the internet for years, incorrectly attributed to Andy Rooney.  It was actually written by Frank Kaiser, the founder of a humor and blog website called Suddenly Senior. You have to love a website that allows...