50 Shades and the Rest of Us

 One night at a party, someone I had just met made a comment I hear a lot.  Inevitably, when people hear I am a sex and pleasure coach, they say something like “Oh, you must love Fifty Shades of Grey.” Well, no actually, I think it’s poorly written and a gross...

Nice Girls Can Talk About Sex

Woman Actually Want Sex We really can’t deny it any longer. Women are interested in sex. Take a look at these statistics on romance novel readerships (courtesy of Romance Writers of America): Romance fiction generated $1.438 billion in sales in 2012. Romance was the...

Dancing in the Flow of Eros Playshop

Imagine a Full Body Orgasm I didn’t start out a fan of tantra. It seemed murky, this energy sex thing. Give me good old hands on genitals, mouth on erogenous zones, your hardness inside my warmth. And then I learned the masculine-feminine breath. It would be too...

What Relationships Mean to Women

What Women Really Want I was thinking the other day that it may be God’s cosmic joke to make men and women relate to one another, and then put within us such a different set of longings. Women yearn for connection. Men long for freedom. How Men and Women Are...

G-d chimes in on Desire

Wondering why I am so passionate about helping women connect to their desires?  Check out these words of wisdom that arrived in my inbox this morning from the author of Conversations with God, Neale Donald Walsch, and then continue reading below to hear how you can...

Fighting the demons that block desire

“Are you willing to go deeper than you have ever gone, in order to rise higher than you have ever been?” Christine Kane asked from the stage at Uplevel Your Business in Atlanta, last June.  Caught up in the excitement of the group, and inspired by Christine’s...

Skills of Better Loving – Fulfilling Needs

It’s Valentine’s Day.  The official day that Hallmark and florists make a ton of money because people become willing to share what is in their hearts. What if every day could be like Valentine’s Day? What would it take for us to be willing to express love and...

Being a Better Lover Part 4 – I Will You Good

Welcome back to the series on being a better lover.  I started with the principles of loving, and then moved on to the skills, and hopefully, you’re reading these in order, because they build upon one another. And of course, the skills are the principles put into...