The Truth About Arousal

Where Does Arousal Come From? You probably think arousal comes from between your legs. Well partially. In this video we tell you some secrets about where turn-on starts and how to have more of it.   Videos now available Did you know we now have our very own...

Head, Heart and Hard-on

Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along  and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...

A Word about Men’s Underwear

You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression! Today’s writing is purely opinionated and I offer a trigger warning, specifically to the very men this post addresses.  In my time with Pleasure Evolution, I’ve had the opportunity to...

Happy International Sex Worker Day!

June 2nd is International Sex Workers Day Today is International Whores Day. This is not to be confused with International Sex Workers Rights Day (March 3) which is more commonly celebrated in North America. International Sex Worker Day was established in 1975...

Three Simple Steps to Getting What You Want

What do we want? One of the most common goals that our clients have is “to be able to communicate my desires to my partner.” Helping people find their voice is something we are passionate about. Why? Because we’ve been there. We both were in...

The Elusive Vaginal Orgasm

My girlfriend doesn’t experience vaginal orgasm! This is a very common complaint from clients. The men want to “make” their woman cum from f#*king. The women think they should be  able to orgasm from penetration. (All those movies can’t be...

Accepting sexuality

Whenever someone asks us if we are pushing the sexual envelope too much, I remind them of how far we’ve come already and accomplished in our society.  Here is a little reminder of one of the pioneers that helped change the way we see sex in today’s world....