Permission to Be Naked
I spent this weekend celebrating the summer Solstice on a beautiful property outside Asheville. To those that find their spirituality in connection to nature, the equinoxes and solstices have special significance. We gathered around a fire On Saturday night and...
read moreBatteries-Free Orgasm for Women
Is Vibrator Use Addictive? Margaret was a single woman in her late forties who came to me for sex coaching. She had been without a partner for several years, and she wanted to meet someone, but she was afraid of what she was bringing into the bedroom, an inability to...
read moreTo the Edge and Back
Spoiler alert: this post contains graphic language and a description of male masturbation technique What is Edging? Edging is the process of approaching the point of orgasm or ejaculation and then intentionally stopping sexual stimulation in order to delay the moment...
read moreSex in Poly Relationships
Polyamory Conversations During our recent trip to Frolicon 2015 in Atlanta, Trevor and I attended a panel called Polyamory 202, in which the presenter outlined some of the issues that crop in "long-term" poly relationships. Although she had good things to say about...
read moreThe Benefits of BDSM: Part II
In my last posting I described some of the benefits of BDSM as a part of your sexual bag of tricks. In this article, I’d like to specifically address the advantages of seeking a professional, experienced coach in your journey to sexual awakening. Primarily, the...
read moreBenefits of BDSM: Part I
BDSM (Bondage/Dominance/Sadism/Masochism) isn’t for everyone, but if you’re reading this article, odds are you’re curious or have already dabbled in it. Most people have a tendency towards either dominant or submissive appetites. Rather than spend half the article on...
read moreHow to Transform Anger in Intimate Relationships
The Dangers of Anger and Resentment Two of the biggest obstacles to good sex are anger and resentment. The difference between the two is that resentment is anger felt but not expressed. We get angry when we feel agreements have been broken, expectations disappointed,...
read more10 Ways to Spark up Sex in a Long-term Relationship
Is familiarity breeding contempt? Now that the flush (and hormone release) of new love is gone, does your sex life seem flat? Here are ten ways to bring new life to an old love. 1. Be Deliberate and Invest This one is the foundation for all the others. It’s easy in an...
read moreHanukah, Solstice, Christmas – It’s all about the light
Learn about importance of our radiance, howe we embrace our own light through the holidays, and the upcoming Conscious Lovers Play Party.
read moreHow I Discovered My Calling
How I was introduced to the archetype of the Sacred Prostitute (by Nancy Qualls Corbett) & how I was inspired to become a sex counselor and intimacy coach.
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