Honey, we need to TALK – The Relationship Maintenance Conversation
He Said: I don't know about other men, but one of the phrases I hated to hear my girlfriend say was, "We need to Talk." You could hear the capital T in the word and you knew this wasn't going to be a fun conversation about the latest television show or what's...
read moreThe Truth About Arousal
Where Does Arousal Come From? You probably think arousal comes from between your legs. Well partially. In this video we tell you some secrets about where turn-on starts and how to have more of it. Videos now available Did you know we now have our very own...
read moreHead, Heart and Hard-on
Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...
read moreA Word about Men’s Underwear
You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression! Today's writing is purely opinionated and I offer a trigger warning, specifically to the very men this post addresses. In my time with Pleasure Evolution, I've had the opportunity to facilitate Play...
read more[VLOG] Relationships are hard, but they’re worth it
Watch out world, we have figured out how to use Facebook Live! Here are a few minutes on why being in relationship is challenging, and how to communicate when it is. Next up, we try out Periscope! We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.
read moreHappy International Sex Worker Day!
June 2nd is International Sex Workers Day Today is International Whores Day. This is not to be confused with International Sex Workers Rights Day (March 3) which is more commonly celebrated in North America. International Sex Worker Day was established in 1975...
read moreFrolicon 2016: The Naughty Side of Paradise -Lessons Taught and Learned
Our Experience at Frolicon 2016 For those not familiar with the convention, Frolicon: The Naughty Side of Paradise, it is a kink convention held each Spring in Atlanta, GA. Imagine 2500 individuals with a diversity of interests in alternative sexuality and lifestyle...
read moreThree Simple Steps to Getting What You Want
What do we want? One of the most common goals that our clients have is "to be able to communicate my desires to my partner." Helping people find their voice is something we are passionate about. Why? Because we've been there. We both were in long-term relationships...
read moreThe Elusive Vaginal Orgasm
My girlfriend doesn't experience vaginal orgasm! This is a very common complaint from clients. The men want to "make" their woman cum from f#*king. The women think they should be able to orgasm from penetration. (All those movies can't be wrong, right? Not even...
read moreAccepting sexuality
Whenever someone asks us if we are pushing the sexual envelope too much, I remind them of how far we've come already and accomplished in our society. Here is a little reminder of one of the pioneers that helped change the way we see sex in today's world....
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