Can you hear me now? – Be a Better Lover – Skill 2
It’s amazing how much I am learning as I progress through this study of Love is an Intention: An Interview with Jerry Judd about the Principles and Skills of Loving (published by Friends of Shalom Mountain). I keep finding ways that I can up my game as a Lover. This...
read moreThe Be a Better Lover Series: Skill #1 – Seeing
If you are reading this post to learn some new position from the kama sutra, you are in the wrong place, at least today. The Lover I’m talking about, now, is the heart opened, longing for deep intimacy lover. And the skills I am going to write about work with...
read moreDispelling the Love Myths – Day 5 – Thou shalt be independent
This final principle of love, is usually the most controversial. It states, “Love is a response to need.” In this culture, we associate need with weakness and we don’t want to appear that way, because it will turn-off prospective partners. I used to be terribly...
read moreDispelling the Love Myths #4 – Feeling love is enough
There are a million love songs. From Donna Summers I Feel Love to The Lion King's Can you Feel the Love Tonight they all remind us that when love is present, it is palpable. So I'm willing to agree that love is a feeling, the problem is, love felt, but not expressed,...
read moreDispelling Love Myths Day 3 – Love takes time and others
If you are just tuning in, I've been writing for the last couple of days on the what I call The Love Myths. These are so culturally ingrained, we don't even realize that these beliefs are running our lives. If Love is a choice we make, and NOT something we fall...
read moreDay Two – Dispelling Love Myths: Love is expensive
Yesterday, I started this series to get people thinking about how much more love would be available if we practiced some simple principles and skills of loving. If you missed that post, you can read it here. Today’s myth? That Love is expensive. We believe its...
read moreDispelling the Love Myths
It is our most pervasive myth: love is something you fall into. You are going along your daily life and BOOM, there she was just a walking down the street! I saw him standing there, and I knew. Cue the soundtrack! We have come to believe in chemistry, and kismet, and...
read moreA tale of two husbands
Contrary to what you are thinking, this is not about the men I have married. Even though I have two husbands, or to be more precise, two ex-husbands, this post is a simple story of identifying a desire, and the creative discovery of a solution. I have been separated...
read morePlay in the face of adversity
I recently watched a Esther Hicks where she channeled her guides Abraham saying, “We don’t care if you get what you want or you don’t. We party anyway.” I’ve always been a lemonade out of lemons sort of person. My dad used to say that I could walk into a room full...
read moreNeed a Lift? Try These. . .
According to the Law of Attraction, as written about by Esther Hicks/Abraham and many others. the way to have everything you want is to keep your energetic vibration positive. We live in a constant flow of well-being, and good comes when we are allowing it, by...
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